Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Worrying on past and future,careless on present

Every living moment,our mind worries about many things.Worrying is a habit to us.Can you remember a moment when you do not worry about anything? May be when sleeping.On all other moments our mind continuously worries.If you look at face of most of the people,the face has always got a worried look.Some of them have even developed wrinkles on forehead due to continuous worrying  thus  turning wrinkles on forehead in to regular lines on forehead.

What are you worrying about? Mostly about mistakes committed in the past,opportunities missed,wrong decisions made and worrying lead you to unhappiness,despair and calling yourself as a fool,incapable person who has not done what should have been done at the right time , suffering and missing many good fortunes due to wrong moves,wrong decisions.
Worrying does not end with past.We always worry about future.What will happen to me in future? What all miseries,unhappiness,bad luck,wrong decisions,painful events wait for me in future? As if worrying about past is not sufficient we find many reasons to worry about future.
In this continuous story of worrying about past and future we forget to act properly in present.We simply do not worry about what we do in present till it become past.Once it become past,we start worrying about what could have been done about just passed actions of ours.
Ideally one should think about present,act intelligently,properly,correctly about whatever we are doing at present ,calmly without carelessness without allowing our mind to wander into past or future.Once we do everything in the present in the best possible manner within our capability and limitations,naturally we will have less to worry about our wrong actions in the past.Once we make less mistakes in the present,we get more confidence about doing everything correctly,properly,to the best of our ability in future.
This command over present which we normally throw away carelessly can change a lot.That will make our past more meaningful and less worrisome.Proper management of our present activities and present time will definitely give us more successes and rewards and we will definitely get more confidence and courage to face and manage future.
So live fully in present without worrying about past and future.Remember,no one has gained anything by worrying about past and future which are not in your hands.In fact such worries have caused failures in the present .As well managed present will turn out to be proud moments of past,your proper management of present will make your past look rosy and  future definitely cannot look bad,as your confidence level increases about your ability to manage correctly giving you hopes instead of worries about future.

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